I’m sick and tired of the mess happening on YouTube and across social media. This is especially true when it comes to how Black women are treated. This isn’t just “internet drama” anymore—it’s a full-blown attack on Black women’s lives, mental health, and safety. Every day, we see sistas tearing each other down by becoming bullies. They get harassed by trolls. They are dragged into toxic wars fueled by envy, jealousy, and rage. And now, we’ve crossed a line that should have never been crossed.
Last week, a Black woman YouTuber in the “Black Tea Sector” tragically took her own life. Why? Because she was doxxed. Her private life was exposed for the world to pick apart, and the constant harassment became too much to bear. Let that sink in. She was involved in the beef as well. However, she, like others, simply wanted to build a platform. She wanted to share her voice. Unfortunately, she was driven to suicide because of the cruelty she faced online.
This isn’t just a wake-up call—it’s a scream that something has to change NOW.
Why Are Black Women Targeting Each Other?
Let’s be real: Women get hated on because they’re strong and talented and refuse to dim their light for anyone. For some women, that’s threatening. Some women do not deal with their insecurities. Instead, they lash out with hate, gossip, and schemes to bring fellow Black women down. It’s jealousy, plain and simple. These people see Black women shining. Whether it’s through their careers, families, or social media platforms, they can’t handle it. So, they resort to the dirtiest tactics imaginable.
The Dirty Tactics of Online Bullies
This bullying isn’t just petty name-calling—it’s vicious, calculated, and dangerous. Here are the most common methods these cowards use to attack Black women:
Doxxing: They dig up your address, phone number, or workplace and post it online for everyone to see. It’s not just invasive—it’s life-threatening. Imagine living in constant fear that someone will show up at your door.
False CPS Calls: Black mothers are being falsely reported to Child Protective Services out of spite. This isn’t just a minor inconvenience—it’s an attack on their families. These false reports can traumatize children and disrupt entire households.
Swatting and Police Reports: Some trolls call the cops with fake accusations. This action sends armed officers to someone’s home. For Black women, this isn’t a prank—it’s a death threat.
Public Shaming and Lies: They spread fake scandals. They drag Black women’s names through the mud. They do this all for clout and clicks. These attacks aren’t harmless—they ruin reputations and destroy livelihoods.
And let’s not forget the coordinated efforts to demonetize or flag channels of Black women. This is done by mass-reporting their accounts or harassing their followers.
The Black Sectors of YouTube: Breeding Grounds for Hate
The Black Sectors of YouTube, once a space for commentary and entertainment, has turned into a toxic battlefield. Instead of uplifting each other, creators are tearing each other down in the most vicious ways possible. The recent suicide of a Black woman YouTuber should make everyone stop and reflect on the damage being done.
She was doxxed, dragged, and humiliated by people who didn’t care about the human being behind the screen. They didn’t care that she was a mother, a friend, and a woman with feelings. They just wanted to destroy her, and they succeeded. Unfortunately, this happens every day in these sectors. Even on Christmas day, they’re on Streamyard panels. They argue and say the nastiest things to and about each other. This isn’t entertainment anymore. This is a sick and twisted game that’s costing people their lives.
What Needs to Change
- Accountability: Social media platforms need to do better. They allow this toxic behavior to thrive by failing to enforce their own rules. It’s time for real consequences for doxxing, harassment, and bullying.
- Community Support: Black women need to be nicer to each other. Stop supporting the drama and start calling out the mess. If you see someone being attacked, speak up. Also, leave people alone when they tell you to. Why continually pick at them?
- Stop Glorifying the Bullies: Too many people tune in for the tea and act like it’s all fun and games. But when someone’s life is on the line, it’s not funny anymore. Stop giving clout to the people who thrive on destruction.
- Mental Health Awareness: We need to talk about the mental health toll this takes. Therapy, support groups, and self-care aren’t just luxuries—they’re necessities. And also, turn off the app and get some help!
Final Thoughts
To everyone who thinks this is just drama: wake up. This can be life or death. Black women are targeting each other, harassing, and arguing, and it’s not okay. To the bullies hiding behind keyboards: you’re not just trolls. You’re abusers. You’re destroying lives for likes and views, and there’s blood on your hands. And to my fellow Black women: protect your peace. Guard your energy. Enough is enough.
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