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  • When Parents Choose Freedom Over Their Kids: A Growing Problem

    A Hard Truth About Parenting Today

    Today, more parents are walking away from their children—not because of poverty or abuse, but because they want personal freedom. Social media has made this trend visible. Some parents openly admit they gave up custody to party. Others seek to travel or live without the responsibility of kids. This raises serious questions about family values, parental responsibility, and the long-term impact on children.

    When Kids Become “Optional”

    Some parents proudly share online why they gave up their kids. They say they want to travel the world. They prefer to keep a party lifestyle. They focus only on dating. They wish to build wealth without the cost of children. Alternatively, they want to live like they did before becoming parents. These parents often talk about “dropping off” their kids as if they’re returning something to a store. This cold attitude shows they don’t understand what being a parent really means.

    Real Struggles vs Selfish Choices

    It’s important to separate parents who truly cannot care for their kids from those who simply don’t want to. Real reasons might include having no money or support. They could also be facing mental health struggles or living in a home with domestic violence. Some might be seriously ill or disabled. Others could be dealing with addiction that requires treatment. On the other hand, selfish reasons often include wanting fun over children’s needs. Parents might see kids as a barrier to their lifestyle. Some lack love or empathy for their children. They might make choices for short-term pleasure, or put themselves first no matter the cost.

    The Damage to Children

    When parents leave for selfish reasons, kids face deep emotional wounds. They may feel abandoned or unwanted. They can have trouble trusting people in the future. Many develop low self-esteem, attachment issues, and confusion about who they are. Some argue that kids are “better off” with adoptive families who can give them more money or stability. But money can’t replace the bond between parent and child. It also can’t heal the pain of knowing a parent chose freedom over them.

    How Society Is Changing

    More people today treat parenthood as something they can walk away from if it gets hard. Social media makes this worse by creating spaces where parents get support or even praise for abandoning their children. This normalizes selfish behavior instead of holding parents accountable.

    The Bigger Cost

    When parents leave, society pays the price. Foster care systems get overwhelmed. More children suffer trauma. Taxpayer money goes to child welfare programs. Kids without stable homes often struggle into adulthood. What’s even worse is abandoned children may repeat the cycle when they grow up. They may find it hard to be good parents themselves or build healthy relationships.

    We Need Solutions!

    Instead of walking away, parents in crisis can turn to help. While the government is cutting back on lots of programs, parents can still go to family counseling. Taking parenting classes is also an option. Joining support groups is another possibility. They can ask TRUSTING family or friends for temporary help. Extended families and communities can also play a big role because they can provide childcare, financial support, or emotional guidance. Having a strong support system can prevent parents from making choices that harm their children.

    Moving Forward

    To stop this problem, society needs to act. We must teach that parenthood is a lifelong responsibility. We should push back against social media trends that normalize abandonment. Schools and communities should offer parenting education before people have kids. And lawmakers should work on policies that support struggling families.

    Conclusion: Parenting Is Not Optional

    Parenting is not something you can quit when life gets hard. Children don’t ask to be born, and they deserve love, care, and sacrifice from their parents. While real struggles sometimes make custody changes necessary, abandoning kids for selfish reasons is never acceptable. The choice is clear: either allow selfish abandonment to grow—or recommit to responsibility and put the children first.

  • How to Support Your Teen’s Mental Health

    Keep in mind that I am not a licensed counselor or therapist. I am writing from my experience working with teenagers in schools in low-socioeconomic areas and as a parent.

    As a parent, you want the best for your child. You want them to be happy, healthy, and successful. But in today’s world, where technology, school pressure, and global issues are constantly changing, it can be hard to know how to support your teen’s mental health.

    In 2025, many teens are still feeling the lasting effects of the COVID-19 pandemic, along with new challenges like social media pressure, school violence concerns, climate anxiety, and the rising cost of living that affects families. Recent reports show that teen depression and anxiety remain higher than before 2020, and many young people say they feel stressed, isolated, or overwhelmed. These struggles can put teens at risk for more serious problems if they don’t have the right support.

    📊 2025 Teen Mental Health: What the Data Shows

    United States (CDC & national surveys)

    • In 2023, 40% of high school students experienced persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness
    • 20% of students seriously considered attempting suicide, and nearly 9% attempted suicide within the past year
    • Over 20% of adolescents (ages 12–17) received mental health therapy, but the same share reported unmet mental health care needs in 2021–2023
    • Just 55% of teens always or usually receive the social and emotional support they need

    Trends & disparities:

    • Female and LGBTQ+ youth report higher rates of emotional distress than their male, cisgender, heterosexual peers
    • Among teens (12–17), approximately 19.7% reported symptoms of anxiety and 17.8% reported symptoms of depression during the past two weeks (2021–2023)

    Emerging Pressures (Social Media, Loneliness, Climate)

    • A April 2025 Pew survey showed 44% of parents cited social media as the most harmful factor to teen mental health; 48% of teens say social media mostly negatively affects their peers; 45% admit spending too much time online, especially girls, who report negative effects on confidence and sleep
    • According to a September 2025 survey by Hopelab/Data for Progress, 61% of youth aged 13–24 say loneliness affects their mental health; 35% say it disrupts daily life; and 25% of those in school believe their schools lack adequate mental health support
    • The Lancet Commission (May 2025) warns that economic, social, and environmental pressures—including climate anxiety—are creating a “perfect storm” for adolescent mental health decline globally

    I put together this post with tips on how to help your teen’s mental health in 2025. Whether they’re dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, or simply the ups and downs of growing up, these steps can make a difference.

    Tip #1: Listen without judging

    Teens often feel like their parents don’t “get it.” One of the best ways to support them is to listen with patience and without judgment. Try not to interrupt, criticize, or immediately give advice unless they ask for it. Instead, use active listening: nod, ask open-ended questions, and repeat back what you hear. For example, “It sounds like school has been overwhelming lately” or “I can see you’re really frustrated about that.”

    When your teen feels truly heard, they are more likely to open up and trust you with their feelings.

    Tip #2: Encourage healthy habits

    Healthy routines are a powerful tool for mental health. Encourage your teen to:

    • Get enough sleep
    • Eat balanced meals
    • Exercise regularly
    • Limit screen time when possible
    • Stay hydrated
    • Avoid drugs and alcohol
    • Hang with the RIGHT people

    You can model these habits by doing them as a family—like cooking healthy meals together, going for walks, or setting a “no phones at dinner” rule. Positive habits help teens manage stress, improve mood, and build confidence.

    Tip #3: Help them find professional help if needed

    Sometimes your teen may need more than family support. If you notice signs of depression, anxiety, self-harm, eating disorders, or talk of suicide, it’s important to connect them with a professional. This could be a therapist, counselor, or doctor who understands teen mental health.

    Remind your teen that asking for help is not weakness—it’s courage. Offer to help them research options or go with them to their first appointment. The earlier they get support, the better their chances of recovery and growth.

    Final Thoughts

    Parenting a teen in 2025 isn’t easy, but it’s one of the most important jobs you’ll ever have. By listening without judgment, encouraging healthy habits, and seeking professional help when necessary, you can show your child that you are always in their corner.

  • Free Resources for National Reading Month

    March is National Reading Month. There are tons of free, high-quality resources available. You might be an adult looking to dive into a new book. Alternatively, you could be a parent hoping to inspire your child. Here’s a roundup of websites and apps to help everyone enjoy stories without spending a dime!

    For Adults: Free Reading Websites
    For newer titles, check out Libby (libbyapp.com), an app that lets you borrow eBooks and audiobooks from your local library using a free library card. Don’t have a card? Many libraries allow you to sign up online! If you enjoy short stories or essays, Medium (medium.com) has thousands of free articles on nearly every topic, though some require a subscription. For nonfiction lovers, Open Library (openlibrary.org) lets you “borrow” digital copies of books for free, similar to a physical library. Loyal Books (loyalbooks.com) is another gem, offering free audiobooks and eBooks across genres. And don’t overlook Spotify—its free tier includes audiobooks and podcasts for on-the-go listening.

    For Kids: Engaging Reading Apps and Sites
    Parents can turn screen time into reading time with kid-friendly platforms. Epic! (getepic.com) offers a free 30-day trial with access to 40,000+ books, audiobooks, and learning videos for kids 12 and under—perfect for March reading challenges. After the trial, teachers and librarians can access it for free, so ask your school!

    Younger kids will love Storyline Online (storylineonline.net), where actors like Viola Davis read popular picture books aloud with animated illustrations—it’s completely free. International Children’s Digital Library (en.childrenslibrary.org) features thousands of children’s books in over 60 languages, ideal for bilingual families. For early readers, Starfall (starfall.com) has free phonics games and simple books, while Oxford Owl (oxfordowl.co.uk) offers over 100 free eBooks and reading activities for ages 3–11 (requires a free account).

    Libby (the same app adults use!) is also fantastic for kids if your library has a robust children’s section. For interactive fun, try PBS Kids Reading Games (pbskids.org/games/reading), which pairs games with beloved characters like Elmo and Clifford. Finally, Khan Academy Kids (khanacademy.org/kids) includes free storybooks and literacy activities for ages 2–8, with no ads or subscriptions.

    Happy Reading!
    Whether you’re flipping pages on a tablet or listening to a story during carpool, these free tools make it easy to celebrate National Reading Month. For adults, rediscover old favorites or explore new worlds—and for kids, turn reading into a playful, shared adventure. Best of all, many of these resources are available year-round, so the magic doesn’t have to end in March! 📚✨

  • What’s Happening with the Texas Education Board and Bible Studies in Schools?

    There’s a lot of talk in Texas right now. People are debating whether public schools, including elementary schools, should allow Bibles in classrooms. They are also considering whether to offer Bible-related lessons.

    Who Decides What Happens in Schools?

    In Texas, a group called the State Board of Education (SBOE) makes big decisions. They determine what kids learn in public schools. They establish rules for textbooks and materials. They also create standards for subjects like math, science, and history. Recently, some people have pushed for the Bible to be included in classrooms, even for young kids in elementary school. Currently, public high schools in Texas have the option to teach Bible classes as electives. These classes should focus on history or literature. They are not meant to focus on religion. A small group in the SBOE has approved a new idea to allow Bibles in younger grades. Now the Texas legislature (the state’s law-making group) will vote on whether it should happen statewide.

    How Did we Get Here?

    Here’s a brief timeline:

    • June 2023: Texas Governor Greg Abbott signed House Bill 1605 into law.
    • May 2024: The Texas Education Agency (TEA) and the State Board of Education (SBOE) unveiled this proposal. They received open feedback in September of this year.
    • November 2024: The board spent time in meetings to discuss the curriculum with Bluebonnet Learning. They focused on state-developed instructional materials that provides teachers with the tools to foster student success.

    Why Is This a Big Deal?

    This is a hot topic. It’s about more than just school materials. It’s about who gets to decide what kids learn. Some parents want their children to learn values that match their beliefs. Others think public schools should stay neutral. They believe schools should not involve religion.

    There’s also a law called the First Amendment, which says:

    1. The government (and public schools) can’t promote one religion over another.
    2. Everyone has the right to practice their own religion.

    Public schools must follow this law. If the Texas legislature votes to allow Bibles in classrooms, they’ll need to make sure it doesn’t cross legal boundaries.

    What Does This Have to Do with Parents’ Rights?

    Former President Donald Trump and other leaders often talk about parents’ rights in education. This means parents should have a bigger say in what their kids are taught. The idea of adding Bibles to classrooms fits into this movement. Some parents feel their values aren’t being reflected in schools. But not all parents agree. Some think schools should stay focused on education, not religion. They argue that public schools serve families from many different backgrounds and beliefs.

    What About Federal Rules?

    Education rules are usually decided at the state level. However, the federal government can intervene. This is especially true when it comes to protecting rights. For example, if a school promotes one religion too much, it might break federal rules. Some politicians want to give states like Texas even more control over education. They’ve even suggested getting rid of the U.S. Department of Education, which helps fund schools and enforces federal rules. If that happens, states like Texas could make their own decisions. They could decide about things like Bibles in classrooms without as much interference. However, there might be fewer protections for parents or students who disagree.

    Why Does This Matter to You?

    If you’re a college student thinking about these changes, here’s what it could mean:

    • For Families: Parents might have more say in what their kids learn. However, it could also mean fewer protections for kids from diverse backgrounds.
    • For Schools: Schools could face lawsuits if they don’t balance religion with education properly.
    • For Students: The debate is part of a bigger question. It concerns what public education should look like in the future. Should it be neutral, or should it reflect specific values?

    What’s Next?

    The Texas legislature will vote on this issue this Friday, Nov. 20. If it passes, schools could start including Bibles or Bible-based lessons in their classrooms. Whether you agree with it or not, it’s a reminder that education is deeply connected to politics. The decisions made today will shape what future generations learn.

    Check out my YouTube video where I get deeper in this topic.

  • Managing Back-to-School Anxiety: Tips for Emotional Well-being

    As the back-to-school season approaches, it’s important to rank mental health and wellness. The excitement of a new school year often comes hand in hand with anxiety, stress, and the need for balance. Here’s how you can support your well-being as you navigate this transition.

    Managing Back-to-School Anxiety

    It’s natural to feel a mix of emotions when school starts—excitement, anticipation, and sometimes anxiety. Here are a few tips to help manage these feelings:

    1. Acknowledge Your Feelings: It’s okay to feel anxious. Talk about your feelings with someone you trust, like a friend, family member, or school counselor. Sometimes, just voicing your concerns can make them feel more manageable.
    2. Prepare Ahead: Familiarize yourself with your schedule, classrooms, and teachers before the first day. Knowing what to expect can reduce uncertainty and help you feel more in control.
    3. Practice Relaxation Techniques: Breathing exercises, meditation, or even simple stretching can help calm your mind and body. Set aside a few minutes each day to practice these techniques.
    4. Focus on the Positives: Shift your mindset by thinking about what you’re looking send to. This includes reconnecting with friends, learning something new, or joining a club. Focusing on the positive aspects can help reduce anxiety.

    Tips for Maintaining a Healthy School-Life Balance

    Balancing school responsibilities with personal time is essential for your mental and emotional health. Here are some strategies to help you keep this balance:

    1. Create a Routine: Establishing a daily routine can give structure and predictability. Include time for homework, extracurricular activities, relaxation, and sleep.
    2. Rank Your Tasks: Use a planner or digital tool to organize your tasks. Break down big projects into smaller, manageable steps, and tackle them one at a time. Prioritizing your work can help reduce feelings of being overwhelmed.
    3. Set Boundaries: It’s important to set limits on how much time you spend on schoolwork. Appoint specific times for study and relaxation. This can help prevent burnout and make sure you have time for hobbies, socializing, and self-care.
    4. Stay Active: Physical activity is a great way to relieve stress and boost your mood. Whether it’s a sport, dance, or a simple walk, staying active can improve your overall well-being.
    5. Reach Out for Support: If you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to ask for help. Teachers, counselors, and family members can offer support and guidance.

    The Importance of Sleep for Academic Success

    Sleep is often overlooked, but it plays a crucial role in your academic performance and overall health. Here’s why sleep should be a top priority:

    1. Cognitive Role: Adequate sleep is essential for memory retention, problem-solving, and concentration. A well-rested brain is more effective at processing information and recalling it during tests or class discussions.
    2. Emotional Regulation: Lack of sleep can lead to irritability, mood swings, and difficulty managing stress. Ensuring you get enough rest helps you stay emotionally balanced and better equipped to handle challenges.
    3. Physical Health: Sleep is vital for physical health, including growth and immune role. It helps your body recover from daily activities and strengthens your ability to fight off illnesses.
    4. Sleep Hygiene Tips:
      • Set a Consistent Sleep Schedule: Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends.
      • Create a Relaxing Bedtime Routine: Wind down with calming activities like reading or listening to music.
      • Limit Screen Time: Avoid screens at least an hour before bed. The blue light can interfere with your ability to fall asleep.

    As you step into this new school year, remember to take care of your mental health and wellness. These are just as important as your academic goals. By managing anxiety, maintaining balance, and prioritizing sleep, you’re setting yourself up for a successful and fulfilling year ahead.

  • Back-to-School Tips for Parents: Setting Your Kids and Teens Up for Success

    As the back-to-school season approaches, it’s natural for both parents and students to feel a mix of excitement and anxiety. Whether your child is just starting elementary school, this transition can be challenging. It can also be challenging if they are moving into their final years of high school. The transition back to a structured routine can be tough. Here are some essential tips to help you and your child have a smooth and successful school year.

    1. Get Tech-Ready: Navigating the Digital Classroom

    In today’s education landscape, technology plays a crucial role in learning. Ensuring your child is tech-ready is essential:

    • Update Devices: Make sure laptops, tablets, and smartphones are updated. Make sure they are equipped with the necessary apps or software for the school year. This includes educational apps, school portals, or communication platforms like Google Classroom, Zoom, or Microsoft Teams.
    • Set Up Parental Controls: For younger kids, it’s a good idea to set up parental controls on devices. These controls help check and limit screen time. For older students, discuss responsible internet use and encourage a balance between academic and leisure activities online.
    • Familiarize with School Technology: Many schools use specific platforms for assignments, grading, and communication. Take time to explore these systems with your child. Knowing how to navigate these platforms will help you stay informed about your child’s academic progress.
    • Balance Technology and Time Management: Technology can be both a tool and a distraction. Help your child create a balanced schedule that prioritizes homework and responsibilities. Encourage them to use apps that aid time management, like digital planners or task managers. Set specific times for when and how long they can use entertainment or social media. Establishing these boundaries early on will help them develop good habits that will last throughout the school year.

    2. Set Up a Designated Study Space

    Creating a dedicated space for studying can greatly enhance your child’s focus and productivity:

    • Choose the Right Location: Find a quiet area in your home where your child can work without interruptions. Ideally, this space should be away from high-traffic areas and distractions like the TV.
    • Equip the Space: Make sure the study area is equipped with the necessary supplies. These include pens, notebooks, a computer, a good internet connection, and a comfortable chair. Having everything they need at their fingertips can help decrease disruptions.
    • Keep Organization: Encourage your child to keep their study space organized. Clutter can be distracting, so give storage solutions like shelves or drawers to keep things tidy.
    • Personalize the Space: Allow your child to personalize their study area with items that make them feel comfortable and motivated. This include a favorite poster, a plant, or a desk lamp. A welcoming environment can make study time more enjoyable.

    3. Meet Key People on Campus

    Building relationships with the people who will be a part of your child’s daily school experience is vital:

    • Teachers: Attend meet-the-teacher nights or schedule a quick meeting to introduce yourself. Understanding their expectations and communication style can help you better support your child at home.
    • School Counselors: Counselors are a great resource for both academic and emotional support. Make sure you know who they are. Learn how to reach them if your child needs help with anything from course choice to personal issues.
    • Administrative Staff: Knowing key administrative staff like the principal, assistant principals, and office staff can be invaluable. They can give insights into school policies, procedures, and how to discuss any concerns that arise.
    • Extracurricular Advisors: If your child is involved in sports, clubs, or other extracurricular activities, you should meet the coaches. You should also meet the club advisors. This is important. It is important to meet coaches or club advisors. They can give updates on schedules, expectations, and how these activities complement your child’s academic journey.

    4. Tips for Busy Parents to Stay Involved

    Balancing work, home life, and staying involved in your child’s education can be challenging, but there are strategies to help you stay connected:

    • Set Regular Check-Ins: Schedule weekly or bi-weekly check-ins with your child. Discuss their schoolwork and upcoming assignments. Talk about any challenges they be facing. This can be a casual conversation during dinner. It can also be a more structured time, depending on what works best for your family.
    • Use School Portals: Many schools offer online portals where parents can track grades, attendance, and teacher communications. Make it a habit to log in regularly to stay updated on your child’s academic performance. Turn your notifications on to make sure you catch every update!
    • Stay Informed through Newsletters: Many schools send out weekly or monthly newsletters via email. Make sure you’re on the mailing list to stay informed about important dates, events, and any changes in school policies.
    • Volunteer When Possible: Even with a busy schedule, find small ways to volunteer at school events. Volunteering in your child’s classroom can make a big difference. It shows your child that you’re invested in their education and helps you build connections with the school community.
    • Communicate Openly: Encourage open communication with your child about their school experience. Let them know they can come to you with any concerns, whether academic or social. This helps build trust and ensures they feel supported.
    • Stay Updated on School Board Meetings: Check if your School District streams its board meetings live. This way, you can stay informed on important policies and have a voice in decisions affecting your child’s education. If you can’t attend in person, you can watch online from your handheld device.

    5. Organize and Plan Ahead

    Finally, staying organized is key to managing the busy back-to-school season:

    • Use a Family Calendar: Keep track of important dates. These include school holidays, parent-teacher conferences, and extracurricular activities. Use a family calendar that everyone can access.
    • Set up a Space and Place to Study: A good space to study helps your student concentrate. This will enhance their work.
    • Prepare for the Week Ahead: Take time each weekend to review your child’s schedule for the upcoming week. This can include planning meals, organizing school supplies, and setting up any necessary transportation arrangements.
    • Encourage Independence: As your child gets older, encourage them to take on more responsibility. They should manage their schoolwork and extracurricular commitments. This not only fosters independence but also helps them develop time management skills that will be valuable in the future.

    By next these tips, you can help your child navigate the school year with confidence. You can also make sure you stay involved in their academic journey, even with a busy schedule. Remember, your support and engagement are key to their success!

  • Back to School Means Next Steps: A Guide for Parents and Graduating Seniors

    The start of a new school year often brings excitement and anticipation. But for families with a graduating senior, it can also be a time of both joy and uncertainty. As the countdown begins to that momentous cap-toss, it’s crucial to start planning for the next chapter. Whether your graduate is heading to college, trade school, the military, or starting their own business, this guide will help you navigate the road ahead.

    For the Parents

    • Open Communication: The most important thing is to maintain open and honest conversations with your graduate. Understand their goals, dreams, and fears. Encourage them to explore different options without pressure.
    • Build Your Support Circle: Who are the key staff on campus that will be helping your students towards graduation? Start an email not only showing an open line of communication, but also build a team to show support and get info on what needs to be done.
    • Financial Planning: Start discussing financial responsibilities. Create a budget together, explore scholarship opportunities, and research student loan options. Consider setting up a separate bank account for your graduate to manage their finances independently.
    • Emotional Support: This is a big transition for both of you. Be patient, understanding, and supportive of their emotions. Celebrate their accomplishments and offer guidance without being overbearing.
    • Let Go (Gradually): While it’s natural to want to protect your child, it’s essential to encourage independence. Let them make decisions, even if they’re not the ones you would choose. Trust in their ability to learn from their experiences.

    For the Graduating Senior

    • Checks & Balances: Make sure you’re in the right classes to avoid any last minute issues, such as needing an extra credit or credit recovery to gain credits due to lack of attendance. Meet with your counselor or registrar on campus to take a look over your transcript for any discrepancies. Human errors happen, so it is always good to check.
    • Self-Reflection: Take some time to reflect on your passions, strengths, and values. What excites you? What are you good at? What kind of life do you want to build?
    • Explore Options: Research different paths: college, trade school, military, or entrepreneurship. Consider your interests, career goals, and financial situation.
    • Create a Plan: Develop a clear plan for your next steps. Set short-term and long-term goals. Create a timeline and break down larger goals into smaller, achievable steps.
    • Build Your Network: Start networking with people in your desired field. Attend industry events, connect with alumni, and leverage social media. Building relationships can open doors.
    • Develop Essential Skills: Focus on skills like time management, problem-solving, and communication. These skills are valuable in any career path.

    Planning for Different Paths

    • College: Research colleges, majors, and financial aid options. Consider campus visits and attending college fairs.
    • Trade School: Explore trade schools that offer programs aligned with your interests. Consider job placement rates and industry demand.
    • Military: Research different branches, explore job opportunities, and understand the enlistment process.
    • Gap Year: A year to work, travel, volunteer, or gain new experiences before your next big step in life.
    • Entrepreneurship: Develop a business plan, research market demand, and consider seeking mentorship.
    • Straight to Work: Graduating high school and starting a full-time job right away allows you to earn money, gain work experience, and develop real-world skills.

    Remember, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. The most important thing is to support your graduate in finding their own path. This is an exciting time filled with endless possibilities. Embrace the journey together and celebrate every milestone along the way.

    Resource Bank

    Mz. Whitsdom (who deems herself as the ‘Postsecondary Planner’) has over a decade of experience in college and career readiness, academic advising, and college admissions recruitment and has gotten students to acceptance, attendance, and graduation from various colleges; including Dartmouth, Colby, University of Texas at Austin, Fisk, Cornell, Howard, and more. She has also guided students to various trade programs and careers in Cosmetology, IT, and other skilled labor trades. Email for advising services at WhitsdomAcademy@gmail.com.

  • Great Educational Apps for Kids that makes Learning Made Fun

    Not sure if you noticed, but the education system is changing. It hasn’t been the same since the pandemic when all students and teachers had to move to virtual learning. My daughter has an Amazon Kids tablet that came fully loaded with many apps geared towards learning everything from letters and numbers to reading, sentence structure and science. I can honestly say because I invested in her learning as early as 6 months old, she is doing exceptionally well in Kindergarten. Keep in mind, we still work on handwriting, reading, and math, but her using a tablet is a great addition to her learning.

    I know me saying it is okay to have your kids on tablets, even though according to the American Pediatrics Association, there’s only so much time a child should be on their electronic devices.

    The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends no screen time for children under 18 to 24 months, except for video chatting. For children 2 to 5 years old, the AAP recommends limiting screen time to one hour per day of high-quality programming. For children 6 and older, the AAP encourages healthy habits and limits activities that include screens.

    However if you choose to keep your kids on their tablets longer than the suggested time, at least make their tablet time engaging and educational. Whether your child is just starting their educational journey or seeking additional enrichment, there are numerous options to explore. In this article, we’ll highlight some of the top educational websites for kids under 10, including both paid and free options.

    ABCmouse
    ABCmouse is a comprehensive early learning academy that covers subjects such as reading, math, science, and art. With a wide range of interactive games, puzzles, and activities, ABCmouse keeps young learners engaged while they develop essential skills. The platform offers a structured curriculum designed for children ages 2-8. ABCmouse provides a free trial period, after which a subscription fee is required, typically around $9.95 per month.

    Starfall
    Starfall is another fantastic educational website that focuses on teaching reading and mathematics through phonics-based learning. My kid’s school uses this platform as part of their curriculum on their school laptops, and she absolutely loves it. The site features interactive activities, songs, and stories that cater to children in pre-K through grade 3. Starfall offers a free basic membership with limited access to content. For full access to all features, including printable materials and mobile apps, a paid membership is available for approximately $35 per year. Currently this can be accessed on laptop/desktop.

    ABCya
    ABCya is another kid-fave in my home that offers educational games and activities for children in grades Pre-K through 6. With a wide variety of games covering subjects like math, language arts, and typing, ABCya provides a fun and educational experience for young learners. The website is free to use, with some advertisements displayed on the site. ABCya also offers premium memberships for families and educators, providing ad-free access to all content for a yearly fee. ABCya can be accessed on laptop or tablet, and can be added as an app to your child’s Amazon Kids tablet.

    PBS Kids
    PBS Kids provides a wealth of educational content based on popular children’s television programs. From interactive games and videos to printable activities and lesson plans, PBS Kids offers resources for children of all ages. The website covers various subjects, including literacy, science, and social studies, and encourages creativity and exploration. Even if you want to teach your babies how to brush their teeth, check out Daniel Tiger on the app. Best of all, PBS Kids is entirely free to use, making it accessible to families on any budget.

    Khan Academy Kids
    Khan Academy Kids offers a personalized learning experience for children ages 2-8. The platform features interactive activities, books, and videos designed to promote early literacy, math, and social-emotional development. Khan Academy Kids is completely free to use, with no ads or subscriptions required, making it an excellent option for families looking for high-quality educational content at no cost.

    NOTE: Check with your kids’ teachers to see if they use any of these websites in the classroom. If so, ask for an access code so your child(ren) can continue learning at home. If allowed, the teacher will be happy to share that code. This helps you and your teacher(s) track their progress between the classroom and home. Starfall, ABCya, and Khan Academy Kids for sure has tracking between teacher and parents. While ABCmouse isn’t used in the classroom, it is a helpful learning supplement at home.

    In conclusion, these top educational websites provide valuable resources for children under the age of 10 to learn and explore in a fun and engaging way. Whether you’re looking for a structured curriculum like ABCmouse or a more flexible learning experience like PBS Kids, there’s something for every young learner. With the accessibility of both paid and free options, parents and educators can find the perfect fit to support their child’s educational journey. Your child can learn at home. Don’t wait until we’re under order to stay indoors again and do virtual learning with the kids. Dive into the world of online learning and watch your child thrive!

  • Don’t Sleep on Summer: Amazing Learning Opportunities for High Schoolers

    Summer vacation: a time for relaxation, late nights, and maybe even a bit of boredom. But what if your high school student could use those sunny days to get a head start on college, explore a new passion, or even travel the world? Consider them summer learning programs! These programs offer a fantastic way for high school students to keep their minds engaged, develop valuable skills, and gain a competitive edge.

    Why Choose a Summer Learning Program?

    Summer programs aren’t just about academics (though they can definitely help boost your GPA!). Here are some of the long-term benefits:

    • Exploring interests: Students get to deep dive into a subject they love, whether it’s robotics, creative writing, or marine biology. Many programs offer hands-on learning experiences you won’t find in a traditional classroom setting.
    • Get a taste of college life: Residential college programs gives your student a chance to live on a college campus, take university-level courses, and experience dorm life. This can help you and your student feel more prepared for the transition to college.
    • Build your resume: Stand out from the crowd with unique experiences and achievements. Leadership programs, internships, and research opportunities at universities look fantastic on college applications.
    • Travel and broaden your horizons: Immerse yourself in a new culture through study abroad programs. Learn a language, volunteer in a local community, and gain a global perspective.

    Summer 2024: Gear Up for Learning and Adventure!

    Here are just a few exciting summer programs happening this year (and are offered every year):

    • CIEE High School Summer Abroad (May 20 – August 10): Explore fascinating destinations from Costa Rica to China while taking language courses and participating in cultural excursions. They offer partial and full scholarships. If your student applies before December for Summer 2025, they could get a chance to earn a scholarship plus free travel to their destination and back.
    • Harvard Summer School (June 24 – August 9): Take college-level courses from Harvard faculty and experience the Ivy League life on their historic campus.
    • National Student Leadership Conference (NSLC) (Various Dates): Develop leadership skills, network with peers from across the country, and participate in workshops on relevant topics like social justice and entrepreneurship. Dates vary depending on location.
    • Experiment in International Living (Multiple Programs): Travel the globe while volunteering in local communities and learning about different cultures. Programs run throughout the summer.
    • Bank of America Student Leaders Program (June 16 – July 27): This prestigious program offers leadership training, college prep workshops, and internship opportunities for high school juniors.

    Find Your Perfect Program:

    This is just a small sampling of the incredible summer learning opportunities available. There are plenty of programs that closely or fully aligns with your students’ interests and goals. Encourage your student to speak with their guidance counselor, explore program websites, and to not be afraid to step outside their comfort zone! Summer is the perfect time for them to learn, grow, and discover the amazing things they are capable of.

  • Finding Your Spark: Rekindling Purpose and Fulfillment as a Mom

    Motherhood is a beautiful, all-encompassing journey. But sometimes, between the endless diaper changes, bedtime stories, and the never-ending cycle of laundry, we moms can lose sight of ourselves. The question of purpose and self-fulfillment can nag at us, especially for those who have recently experienced a career shift, like a layoff, or simply feel lost in the daily routine.

    The Spark Within

    The good news? That spark within you, the one that drove your passions before motherhood, is still there. It might be buried a little deeper, but it’s waiting to be reignited. Here’s how to find your way back:

    • Acknowledge Your Feelings: First things first, acknowledge your emotions. Feeling lost, frustrated, or even a little envious of your pre-mom self is perfectly normal. Let yourself feel it, but don’t dwell on it.
    • Reconnect with Your Passions: Take a trip down memory lane. What did you love doing before motherhood? Was it painting, writing, photography, or maybe even coding? Don’t discount seemingly “frivolous” hobbies. They can be a source of immense joy and purpose.
    • Start Small: You don’t need a complete life overhaul. Begin with small, achievable steps. Dedicate 15 minutes a day to your chosen activity. Take an online course, join a local group, or simply dust off those old paints and brushes.

    The Unexpected Spark: A New Chapter

    Maybe motherhood brought a whole new set of skills you didn’t know you had. Did you excel at organizing playdates or creating elaborate birthday decorations? Perhaps your budgeting skills are on point, or your endless patience with your little ones has unlocked a talent for teaching. These newfound strengths can be the seeds for a fulfilling side hustle, a volunteer opportunity, or even a career change.

    Embrace the Journey

    Remember, this is a journey, not a destination. There will be days when that spark feels faint. That’s okay. Be kind to yourself, and don’t be afraid to experiment. The key is to keep moving forward, one small step at a time.

    The Power of Community

    Surround yourself with supportive women who understand the unique challenges of motherhood. Look for online forums, join a local moms’ group, or reach out to friends who share your interests. Sharing your journey with others can reignite your motivation and provide invaluable support.

    The Takeaway

    Motherhood is a gift, but it shouldn’t define you entirely. You are still an individual with dreams, talents, and a purpose beyond your children. Rekindling that spark is not selfish; it’s essential for your well-being and happiness. A fulfilled mom is a better mom, and by nurturing your passions, you set a powerful example for your children that they too can pursue their dreams. So, take that first step, mama. You’ve got this!