The Whitsdom Press

Category: femicides

  • Enough Is Enough: The Toxic Online War Among Black Women

    I’m sick and tired of the mess happening on YouTube and across social media. This is especially true when it comes to how Black women are treated. This isn’t just “internet drama” anymore—it’s a full-blown attack on Black women’s lives, mental health, and safety. Every day, we see sistas tearing each other down by becoming bullies. They get harassed by trolls. They are dragged into toxic wars fueled by envy, jealousy, and rage. And now, we’ve crossed a line that should have never been crossed.

    Last week, a Black woman YouTuber in the “Black Tea Sector” tragically took her own life. Why? Because she was doxxed. Her private life was exposed for the world to pick apart, and the constant harassment became too much to bear. Let that sink in. She was involved in the beef as well. However, she, like others, simply wanted to build a platform. She wanted to share her voice. Unfortunately, she was driven to suicide because of the cruelty she faced online.

    This isn’t just a wake-up call—it’s a scream that something has to change NOW.

    Why Are Black Women Targeting Each Other?

    Let’s be real: Women get hated on because they’re strong and talented and refuse to dim their light for anyone. For some women, that’s threatening. Some women do not deal with their insecurities. Instead, they lash out with hate, gossip, and schemes to bring fellow Black women down. It’s jealousy, plain and simple. These people see Black women shining. Whether it’s through their careers, families, or social media platforms, they can’t handle it. So, they resort to the dirtiest tactics imaginable.

    The Dirty Tactics of Online Bullies

    This bullying isn’t just petty name-calling—it’s vicious, calculated, and dangerous. Here are the most common methods these cowards use to attack Black women:

    Doxxing: They dig up your address, phone number, or workplace and post it online for everyone to see. It’s not just invasive—it’s life-threatening. Imagine living in constant fear that someone will show up at your door.

    False CPS Calls: Black mothers are being falsely reported to Child Protective Services out of spite. This isn’t just a minor inconvenience—it’s an attack on their families. These false reports can traumatize children and disrupt entire households.

    Swatting and Police Reports: Some trolls call the cops with fake accusations. This action sends armed officers to someone’s home. For Black women, this isn’t a prank—it’s a death threat.

    Public Shaming and Lies: They spread fake scandals. They drag Black women’s names through the mud. They do this all for clout and clicks. These attacks aren’t harmless—they ruin reputations and destroy livelihoods.

    And let’s not forget the coordinated efforts to demonetize or flag channels of Black women. This is done by mass-reporting their accounts or harassing their followers.

    The Black Sectors of YouTube: Breeding Grounds for Hate

    The Black Sectors of YouTube, once a space for commentary and entertainment, has turned into a toxic battlefield. Instead of uplifting each other, creators are tearing each other down in the most vicious ways possible. The recent suicide of a Black woman YouTuber should make everyone stop and reflect on the damage being done.

    She was doxxed, dragged, and humiliated by people who didn’t care about the human being behind the screen. They didn’t care that she was a mother, a friend, and a woman with feelings. They just wanted to destroy her, and they succeeded. Unfortunately, this happens every day in these sectors. Even on Christmas day, they’re on Streamyard panels. They argue and say the nastiest things to and about each other. This isn’t entertainment anymore. This is a sick and twisted game that’s costing people their lives.

    What Needs to Change

    1. Accountability: Social media platforms need to do better. They allow this toxic behavior to thrive by failing to enforce their own rules. It’s time for real consequences for doxxing, harassment, and bullying.
    2. Community Support: Black women need to be nicer to each other. Stop supporting the drama and start calling out the mess. If you see someone being attacked, speak up. Also, leave people alone when they tell you to. Why continually pick at them?
    3. Stop Glorifying the Bullies: Too many people tune in for the tea and act like it’s all fun and games. But when someone’s life is on the line, it’s not funny anymore. Stop giving clout to the people who thrive on destruction.
    4. Mental Health Awareness: We need to talk about the mental health toll this takes. Therapy, support groups, and self-care aren’t just luxuries—they’re necessities. And also, turn off the app and get some help!

    Final Thoughts

    To everyone who thinks this is just drama: wake up. This can be life or death. Black women are targeting each other, harassing, and arguing, and it’s not okay. To the bullies hiding behind keyboards: you’re not just trolls. You’re abusers. You’re destroying lives for likes and views, and there’s blood on your hands. And to my fellow Black women: protect your peace. Guard your energy. Enough is enough.

  • Another Case of Bad Friends

     

    This post is not meant to create paranoia but to raise awareness. This is to shine light can better protect ourselves and the women around us. Some of the following content may be graphic.

    FRIENDSHIP… a word synonymous with trust, loyalty, and support. Yet, the harsh reality is that for some women, this very trust can be tragically misplaced.  This post sheds light on a danger often overlooked – women murdered by those they considered friends.

    Statistics show that a significant portion of women are murdered by acquaintances or friends.  These cases are particularly devastating because the victim lowers their guard, making them more vulnerable.  The perpetrator, often someone the victim confides in, exploits this trust for personal gain or twisted gratification. The reasons behind these murders can vary. Jealousy, revenge, or financial gain can all be catalysts.  Scenarios can include seemingly harmless situations escalating to violence, planned attacks by manipulative “friends,” or even a friend turning on their companion during a seemingly safe and chill moment.

    In recent news, we learned that Mahogany Jackson, a 20-year-old mother, was killed on Feb. 25th at an apartment in Birmingham, Alabama. The morning of, Mahogany texted her mother that she was being held hostage: “Send the police at apt 3 held hostage don’t call.” She was handcuffed, stripped, tortured, and forced to perform s*x acts on four men and four women before being executed by a gunshot wound to the back of the head…AND IT WAS RECORDED! Video footage (that I refuse to watch) also showed Jackson being stomped and spat on before getting dragged by her hair, naked toward a car’s trunk. Her body was later dumped at an illegal dump site called “Dead Man’s Road.”

    Brandon Pope, 24, Francis “Ace” Harris, 25, and Jeremiah “Kodak” McDowell, 18 – were charged with capital murder, first-degree kidnapping, and capital murder during first-degree sodomy. Teja Lewis, 26, Si’Niya McCall, 23, Giovannie Clapp, 23, Blair Green, 25, and Ariana Lashay Robinson, 23, were charged with felony murder, along with first-degree kidnapping and first-degree sodomy.

    Respectfully, this took me back to the case of Shanquella Robinson, who was also killed by a group of friends and acquaintances in October 2022 on a trip in Cabo San Lucas. Another situation THAT WAS RECORDED showed Shanquella being naked, brutally beaten and defenseless by a woman who was a part of the group. She was found in stable condition but dehydrated, disorientated, verbally unresponsive, unable to communicate, and appearing to be intoxicated. Within a few hours of medical treatment, she passed away. An autopsy showed the cause of death being severe spinal cord injury and broken neck. After investigations made by the State Attorney General’s Office of Baja California Sur and the FBU, authorities decided to not pursue criminal charges related to Shanquella’s death. Even after Black Twitter broke the case down and made major developments, no criminal charges!

    Ladies, we must protect ourselves. While it may seem impossible to eliminate all risk, here are some steps we can take. Trust Carefully: Don’t rush into deep friendships. Observe a person’s behavior over time. Boundaries Matter: Set and maintain healthy boundaries. Don’t be afraid to say no and walk away from unhealthy dynamics. Listen to Your Gut: If something feels off, it probably is. Don’t ignore red flags. Tell Someone: If you go on a “friend” trip, let your loved ones or those you trust back home know your whereabouts, It is okay to even share your location with them. Safety Planning: If a friend becomes threatening, create a safety plan FOR YOURSELF.

    The late Dallas, TX rapper MO3, has a famous lyric that unfortunately rings true: “Everybody ain’t yo friend, Everybody ain’t yo partna…”

    A few resources: 

    • The National Center for Victims of Crime: National Center for Victims of Crime: https://victimsofcrime.org/
    • The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)